Hi my name is Wil Rickards and this is the first blog in a series which I hope will be filled with ideas and activities that you will find useful on the journey of reaching your true potential and maybe finding a job.
Today I am going to introduce myself by explaining where most of my real learning has come from. Author Robert Fulghum wrote a popular book called, All I Really Need To Know I Learned in Kindergarten; all I can say is that I must have been a late bloomer because I did not figure life out quite so early. Yet, if I examine my own experiences, I believe what I found out for myself, often the hard way has stood me in the greatest stead.
- If I forgot my rain gear or spare layers I was left cold or wet
- If I could not be bothered to prepare for lunch I went hungry
- The less I had the more resourceful I became and the easier it was to move
- Hard work was often rewarded; I am left with lots of mental images of stunning views
- The people I shared most trust with are the ones I am still good friends with decades on down the road
- I learned trust by putting myself in situations where I had to trust and I gained a great deal from doing it
- The hardest objectives needed to be prepared and trained for the most and are the ones I still remember
- The more committing and dangerous an adventure the more carefully I chose a partner
- Enjoyment stemmed not only from the activity but in a large part from the company I kept and yet doing something alone was often more emotionally challenging and provided a different benefit
- Being part of a tribe gave me cultural identity, role models, mentors (both savant and otherwise) and quelled some of my impetuosity while still being a nursery for my confident aspirations
- I dreamed most peacefully when, I slept the sleep of the warrior, my arms still aching from the travail and my mind spent from the exertions of maintaining optimism and focus in the face of fear and adversity
- My performance improved most significantly when I set concrete, positive goals and shared the journey with a partner who wanted the same thing and was happy to help me push when life became difficult
- Being self aware and training my weaknesses while playing to my strengths paid the most dividends
- The meditation of being thoroughly in the moment brought the most development. This was most easily obtained when I had to focus and the consequences were real
- Mimicking natural processes was often the most efficient path to follow
- There was no point in getting upset with a situation, it just needed to be dealt with and it was especially rare that I could blame someone else while maintaining integrity; even if I wanted to
Surrounding myself in nature has provided me with these examples and the added benefit of grounding. Standing on top of a precipitous mountain, feeling the surge of a river dropping over a rapid or sitting amidst a vast ocean in a small boat has helped me to know how significant I really am. It has also filled me with joy and allowed me to recognize the value of my choices and the control I have over them.
So that is a little about me. Have you recognized I like transferable learning? Here are a few questions for you. How do you know what you know? Are you like me and need gentle reminders of your own truth? Does taking time out to think about the lessons you have learned in your past give you insight into how to deal with your today? Please do comment, I love reading people’s thoughts and ideas and next time I will share a gem for staying upbeat when life is wearing you down.Originally posted in http://denver.jobing.com/Community_Blog.asp